Sunday, June 15, 2008

NOW WHAT...?

Sorry it's taken me awhile to post this but well, to be honest, I just needed to be still for a bit.

The past 2 months have been quite a ride. I don't have the words to express my thanks to everyone who participated and contributed to his celebration party, donated to his scholarship fund, and just held me up for the past several weeks. The love and support has been overwhelming. Bern had a good life, with great friends, and an amazing family. We are both very lucky.

I know I want to learn from this, I want to grow from this, I want everything good for everyone. I want to live better, do more, laugh all the time. I want for all of us to keep hugging each other. Forever.
I loved Bern and I want to remember everyone we've lost and imagine they're all having cocktails together on a golf course. (with strippers) I want this to stay and I want it to go away.

Life has changed.


Now I can't even watch Meet the Press.


WHAT A FRIGGIN' AWESOME DAY!!!

The celebration was a smashing success! Over the course of the day & evening a couple hundred friends came to celebrate Bern's fun lovin' life. Although there is a dispute whether the ominous rainstorm was either a sign from Bern saying he was pissed that we were having a party without him or whether he was being his usual considerate self and just cooling us off, the tantrum didn't stop the festivities! As soon as the rain stopped, the sun came out, grills restoked, music cranked and the party went on 'til way after dark. The love and energy was spiritual !! Bern would have been very, very pleased!

Special thanks to everyone who donated food and drink, including The Flying Fig, Old Angle, Lolita, Market Ave Wine Bar, Great Lakes, Parallax, Momocho & Premier Produce, Megan for EVERYTHING, all those who brought tasty side dishes and desserts, grill masters Jen & Mac, Erica for getting Wendy here, Damian & Karin for bringing that lovely little gift of new life, Sebastien, all the residents of the Bath House for opening your homes, special kisses to Patty for working your ass off, the "K's" and Steve & Jeannie for being great friends and neighbors to Bern and always treating me like it was my home, too.
And to Bern's family, thanks for the vacations, the years of laughter, letting Zoe sit in with the band, and allowing me to stay with him til the end. He was a member of my family and will always be in my heart, as will you. I love ya Bern. I miss you.
If you took pics send them my way!! To donate to his Scholarship fund contact kerrycapwell@yahoo.com

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